Questionnaire or Destiny? How One Page Can Change Everything
Why a well-written profile becomes the first real step toward a shidduch
Many candidates treat filling out a profile as a bureaucratic formality. Experienced shadchanim know better: a well-prepared profile is not just a list of facts, but the first step toward building an eternal home.
What should your profile include?
Clear life goals. Instead of vague phrases, write a short paragraph about your interests and the kind of home you hope to build.
References. These are the heart of the profile. They should include your rabbi, a teacher from your most recent institution, and a trusted family friend.
The secret of the golden contact. One reference from a person known and trusted by the other side is worth far more than a basket of unknown names.
Professional advice. Always keep a copy of your profile ready. You never know when Hashem will open a shidduch opportunity through an unexpected acquaintance.
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